Why do some men want to remain single despite the fact that many women want to have a romantic relationship with them?

And then you have those women/girls who are treated like crap from guys and these guys seem to have all the girls they want and more.

Guys have told me that it’s really hard for guys to get girls to go out with them, let alone be in a committed relationship with them, and not have some weird drama about an ex bf, her kids, or she’s not plain psycho. Yet it’s super easy for girls to be asked out by guys. My brother was a handsome guy so a lot of girls called him hot. Yuck! So he never had trouble getting dates and having a girlfriend. But I’ve heard from guys who were more average looking or not as charming say this about themselve, how hard it was to get a girl.

So it’s like, am I missing something? How does bad men get the girl but the good guys don’t?

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From hearing the conversations among the guys at my job and, in some ways, I think some of it is lack of maturity on the guy’s part but I think Most of the time is that girls play a ton of games with them. A lot of the bits and peices I hear are pretty similar to the relationship dynamics you would find on paternity court tv.

Something here is broken?

Apparently, girls have it made way better than guys when it comes to potential relationships? But idk, as a girl in my experience, idk if I agree because I can’t seem to keep a guy interested, or to ask me out and actually TAKE me out. And I’m not ugly or anything like that lol it’s just something that doesn’t happen much. Guys do get interested but they never seem serious?

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.